The time is present day. The situation is your surviving parent has entrusted you with the role of attorney in fact in a power of attorney he had drafted for him years ago by his long time entrusted attorney, or worse, a form he did himself. Dad is in a nursing home, and that nursing home is demanding payment. You go to the bank where you know he has saved money for this point in his life. You present your identification, and the durable power of attorney which was duly notarized and appears official.
The bank will not give you the money. Much like a car salesmen discussing price, someone in the back room, normally described as “Legal” denies the document is adequate to access the funds. Most of the time “Legal” isnt on the premises, and instead is days from reviewing then rejecting your document.
This is the everyday occurrence of the adult child of elderly parents find themselves in. The remedy is usually an expensive guardianship the durable power of attorney was meant to avoid altogether.
Generally I disagree with the bank, but that doesn’t count for much.
More often the best defense is an active offense. What you want to have had before this point is a lawyer who has actually had the experience of finding what works and what doesn’t work with banks since the apocalypse banking crisis in 2008. Often it is just a matter of naming them directly in the document, but you can’t do that now because Dad isn’t really able to know what he is signing. I am afraid this is something you hope the trusted lawyer knew. Sometimes it is a good idea to visit the bank and develop a relationship with the people in the lobby with your parent along with you well before any of this happened.
Sometimes none of this works, and it is time to ask the trusted lawyer what he knows about guardianship.